bros before hos

I hear you Clay, I had sometime off and checked out completely.

I may have mixed up names in the below as I heard the story two days ago. Please forgive the naming.

I had a conversation recently about “Steven.” Steven is an AB living his best human life. He has been living with “Julia” for about 4 years. He recently told Julia that he was an “illegal alien.” She apparently was none too happy about that, and she didn’t want to be involved with ICE and moved out on him. In the group of friends they shared, he was friends with “Horace.” Horace was dating “Emily.” Horace had spoken to Steven about Emily maybe being the one, and he was contemplating getting married. Of the female friends in the group, they noticed how Steven treated Julia and all thought he was a stand up guy. He was very well mannered. He never responded to their flirtations and he appeared to be solidly behind Julia. Once Julia moved out and the group became aware, Emily decided to approach Steven and asked him if maybe they could get together. She thought he treated Julia better than Horace treated her. She told him she would leave Horace if he said yes. Steven didn’t know what to do. This is when I learned of the situation. My advice was to tell Steven to tell Emily to pound sand.

Steven is friends with Horace. He knows of Horace’s intention to wed Emily. And, as his friend, I commented that he should not be breaking Horace’s heart. I used the term “bros before hos.” I pointed out that Emily was a “shit stirrer. ” If she were truly interested in Steven, she should be a woman. Break up with Horace cleanly, and only then approach Steven for a relationship. IMO she wanted her cake and to eat it too. She wanted to know if Steven was interested before she left Horace. That scenario places Steven in a situation that he would not find himself in as a true a gentleman. He would not naturally go behind his friend’s back. And that makes Emily manipulative and dishonest. I told him my understanding was, like there is a “girl code,” so it is for men as well, the “bro code”. In a nutshell, a member of the opposite sex should not divide a gender friendship. Emily was selfishly trying to place Steven in an untenable situation by not being out of a relationship while trying to enter another. She was asking Steven to dishonor his good friend Horace.

The second part was Steven may not realize that Julia thought he was an “illegal alien,” as in the way the US defines it, not an AB. She commented about ICE which tells me she misunderstood him, and she did not know he was a true alien. Nonetheless, she didn’t stand by him and he should not take her back.

Do you agree?

Pound sand = get away from me; get out of my face (running away, compacting the sand….)

Bros before Hos = “friendships taken precedence over the opposite sex”

Shit Stirrer = someone intentionally sowing strife for others

Wanting her cake and eating it too = she wants both sides at the same time.

Girl/Boy Code – see “bros before hos”.

Thank you for reading today's post. Have an InterStellar Day! ~PrP

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54 Responses to bros before hos

  1. Callie says:

    Yvonne “Missy” Woods. The worst kind of human

    https://www.instagram.com/reel/DaDUH2wReM3

  2. Carol says:

    Now that is the kind of intro I can respond to PrP. My advice to Steven would have been to give Emily a try. As far as his relationship with Horace is concerned, he didn’t break the “bro” code because he didn’t pursue Emily, she made a play for him.

    Since it seems that they have a connection and she is willing to accept him even though ICE is chasing him. Why Not? Give her a chance.

    • Lara says:

      Yes, I agree. If she had married Horace, it would have been a disaster. She wasn’t that into him.

    • Bette says:

      I disagree. He’s taking a chance that she might do it again, this time to him if she’s sees something better.

      • Larry says:

        Yeah, but in that case, don’t we all?

        Socializing makes the prospect that we will meet someone else we feel is better suited for us possible.

        I have changed partners several times.

  3. Bizhan says:

    Iran kicked the US’s ass. They blew up an entire US navy base. What a gutless piece of shit their leader is.

  4. Moses says:

    I]9 says:
    2026-06-25 at 6:41 am
    The measurements for the temperature of the center of the Immortal’s hand when he was securing the tunnel has finally been determined. It is a staggering 160,000,000 degrees Fahrenheit. That is more than 5 times the temperature of Earth’s Sun’s core which is a mere 27,000,000 degrees Fahrenheit. So we know that he used heat to carve a path through the Milky Way to the Andromeda Galaxy.What we don’t know is how he sealed off access to the Milky Way by those in the Andromeda Galaxy.
    ==================================
    So, the Immortal is hot. What you guys need to do is figure out a way to get him to return.

    • Ellie says:

      You aliens aren’t the only ones who have to deal with solar storms.

      Solar Storms Trigger Instant Changes in Earth’s Weather, Study Suggests:

      https://gizmodo.com/solar-storms-trigger-instant-changes-in-earths-weather-study-suggests-2000776848?utm_source=gizmodo_newsletter&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=2026-06-24-pm

      My suggestion is for you to make noises suggesting that you have changed, and that if the Immortal returns he will be met with more appreciation.

      • Tomas says:

        I hope you aliens are reading Ellie’s link. It talks about earth’s sun’s 11 year cycle. – Every 11 years or so, the Sun’s magnetic field flips. During the lead-up to that event, solar activity builds to a maximum, when there is a dramatic increase in sunspots, solar flares, and coronal mass ejections (CMEs). Once the magnetic field flips, solar activity drops back down to a minimum, and the cycle starts over again. –

        Yeah, I know that you know all about the cycles of our sun. But you need to learn how to get the one being who can help with this sun thing before it gets worse. Even we on earth can suffer if it gets really bad.

  5. Willa says:

    Now that’s an intro PrP. Loved the added explanations. My advice to Steven would have been to tell Horace that Emily was making moves on him.

    • Monique says:

      I would have done the same. Horace should be grateful for the info. It’s better that he found out that Emily wasn’t that into him before the marriage.

    • Rhonda says:

      The elephant in the room is would Steven tell Emily if he knew Horace was cheating on her. That is what “Bros before Hos” really mean. Men stick together against women. Why should women be denied the game men play every day.

      • Veronica says:

        So true. My cousin didn’t tell me that my husband was cheating on me because they are Bros. I found out from his wife because we are Girlz.

        Women have to stick together. I usually agree with you on everything you post PrP, but on this no. Why shouldn’t she attempt to “have her cake and eat it too?” Men do it as a rite of passage.

        • George says:

          I don’t agree with PrP on anything, but today when I was told that she has her head on straight, I just had to comment. Like, PrP said it is Bros before Hos. There are just too many Hos out there. Sluts galore! If I was Steven, I would dick that Ho as often as I could and then I would tell my Bro about his Ho.

          Hell, we could gang bang the bitch. I’d be down for it.

  6. Janis says:

    Men often play the “have your cake and eat it” game. Why shouldn’t women? My advice to Steven would have been to give Emily a try. But not to continue to be friends with Horace.

    • Jake says:

      So it’s Hos before Bros. You Hos are the reason men like me fuck you and move on. My wife fucked my best friend for 3 years before I accidentally caught them at his sister’s house. We were fucking in her bedroom and those motherfuckers used her key thinking that she was at work to fuck in her spare bedroom. We shut down our nooner to observe the tramp and the bastard who I thought was my best friend fuck like disgusting dogs.

      Later that evening I fucked the Ho in the ass and showed her the recording we made of them fucking. She admitted they had been having an affair for 3 years. Then she told me that at least one of the 4 kids we had was probably his.

      I packed my shit up and left that day. That was 8 years ago. I still don’t know if all 4 are mine. The Ho wouldn’t tell me. But now I know that she lied about when their affair began. It started before we got married. At least Emily didn’t marry Horace. She had some honor. That removes her from the Ho list as far as I am concerned.

      I married my best friend’s sister and we have been married for 7 years with 2 kids of our own. My wife married my ex best friend and they have 2 additional kids. We get along because we have to for our kids sake.

      I occasionally, drop by for a fuck when her husband, my ex BF, isn’t there. I feel she owes me that after her whoring around with my ex BF. I only fuck her in the ass because I can’t get hard for that Ho’s pussy. I tell my wife every time I do it. She’s okay with me fucking her in the ass because she doesn’t do that nasty shit. No pun intended because my ex wife douches really well when she knows that we are going to get together. Frankly if I’m honest, it is one of the best fucks of my life. I’ve fucked a lot of bitches in the ass, but when you lay this Ho on her back and hit that ass, it is a magnificent fuck.

      I’m very happy my wife doesn’t get upset when I do it. I don’t cheat on her with any one because I know how that can hurt something awful. When we met she said that I was her first male fuck. She had been gay for 31 years. I’m still her only male fuck, and she still has a few female partners. I’m okay with that. Hell she offered to let me fuck a couple of them, but I couldn’t do that to her.

      PrP, you nailed it. I wouldn’t ever violate the Bro code. Only Hos are down with that.

      • Andy says:

        You sick fuck. You were cheating on your wife with your BF’s sister. You don’t have a leg to stand on.

        • Richard says:

          If you had eyes on the beauty, I doubt you would be of the same opinion. Virgin pussy, offered with no strings attached, no man in his right mind would say no to her. Pussy totally shaved so that it was finger-licking-good.

          So I was married. Who cares in a situation like that? No, I’m not Steven and I haven’t see Emily, but a guy can have an imagination, can’t he?

  7. Helen says:

    Did You Know

    Approximately 25 percent of Argentines mispronounce “Pepsi” as “Pecsi”; rather than fight it, Pepsi simply went with it and, since 2009, they have marketed Pepsi colas as “Pecsi” colas in Argentina.

    • Helena says:

      Did You Know

      The euphemism for death “kicked the bucket” entered into the English language via the mistranslation of the French phrase “kicked the beam” (which referred to the supporting beam that a pig was hung from in a slaughterhouse).

    • Alycedale says:

      Did You Know

      Thanks to the relatively short lifespan of paper-based currency, the U.S. Treasury Department keeps busy disposing of old damaged currency and printing new stock. Every single day, the Treasury Department presses crank out 25 million U.S. currency notes worth approximately 560 million dollars.

    • Ira says:

      Did You Know

      Thanks to the relatively short lifespan of paper-based currency, the U.S. Treasury Department keeps busy disposing of old damaged currency and printing new stock. Every single day, the Treasury Department presses crank out 25 million U.S. currency notes worth approximately 560 million dollars.

  8. Suzy says:

    I just got stung by a wasp so watch it off with soap and water put some ice on it and now I’ve got a baking soda paste but it still stings. Anybody have any home remedies?

  9. Robert says:

    Your ISP is tracking everything you do online: Change this one setting right now

    Did you know that your internet service provider can very likely see every website you visit? Scary, I know, but the fix for that is actually easier than you think. Here’s how to make your network safer with just one change—your DNS server.
    What does the DNS actually do on your network?
    It’s way more important than you realize

    If you’re sitting there trying to figure out what in the world DNS even is, and how it can be insecure at all, let me explain it for you.
    DNS, or domain name system, is how your computer knows where a domain name goes. For instance, when you type google.com, you’re actually just accessing a placeholder. Your computer then reaches out through the DNS server it’s using to find out what server it needs to access—in this case it could be any of the following or even more:
    192.178.155.100
    192.178.155.102
    192.178.155.139
    192.178.155.138
    192.178.155.101
    192.178.155.113
    142.251.210.46
    142.251.41.174

    Since you probably don’t want to have to try to memorize which IP address Google is currently using, you just need to remember google.com and your DNS does the rest.
    As such, DNS is entirely crucial to how your home network functions. Without a DNS server, you wouldn’t be able to load websites using their domain names, making the modern web virtually unusable.
    Why is your ISP’s default DNS so insecure?
    They’re watching…always watching

    Since every time you type a domain name into your browser, the request is sent to the DNS server you’re using, it’s actually pretty easy to extrapolate out what happens.

    Let’s say you use AT&T as your ISP (internet service provider). If you’re using AT&T’s DNS servers, then every time you go to a website, you’re effectively telling AT&T exactly where you’re going.

    Every request you make is logged somewhere on their servers, whether they plan to use it or not. The problem is, you never know when or if they do plan to use that information. It’s a security nightmare.

    You are flying completely blind on your home network if you are still just using standard DNS

    Your ISP controls your internet. So, if you visit sites they don’t approve of, they can (and have in the past) completely shut your internet off. It’s definitely not something that frequently happens, but it can happen, and that’s the problem.

    Also, I don’t want you to think that your ISP’s DNS is constantly leaking your information out there—it likely isn’t. But, they get all the information, and they can choose what to do with it, which does include selling it to the highest bidder.
    What you should look for in a new DNS provider
    Cloudflare, Quad9, Google, and so many others are all vying for you to use their services

    There are a ton of DNS providers out there. Cloudflare and Google are two of the biggest for obvious reasons, but they themselves have security issues to worry about too. Do you really want Google knowing every website you visit? They already know every term you search and all of your email data.
    Quad9 is a newer DNS provider on the scene but they’re a pretty great option all things considered. Quad9 is definitely considered a security-first DNS, making it a great choice if you want to utilize a DNS that won’t log and sell every request you make.
    Another good option is OpenDNS, which is run by Cisco. It’s designed as a family-focused DNS that blocks adult websites from loading. Yep, the DNS you choose to use can determine what websites do and don’t load on your network. Choosing a filtered DNS like OpenDNS means that requests made to blocked sites simply won’t load because OpenDNS is filtering them out.
    You can also somewhat act as your own DNS, if you want to go that far. This is typically done by running Pi-hole, AdGuard, or Technitium alongside a service called Unbound.

    Unbound is a DNS recursive resolver. What that means is when you request a domain for the first time from a DNS server, it caches the results so that way subsequent requests go to your own server and not someone else’s.
    Another option would be to self-host your own authoritative DNS server using something like BIND, NSD, or Knot DNS, though this is definitely a much more complex option and something that beginners shouldn’t try to tackle.
    Changing the DNS on your router is more important than changing it on a single device
    It’s how you protect your entire network at one time

    Once you settle on what DNS provider you want to use, make sure to set it on your router itself.
    It’s definitely possible (and often easier) to just change the DNS on your device, but that’s still not nearly as secure because other devices on your network are still using your ISP’s DNS.

    So, whenever making a change to DNS, always make it at the router level. It’s pretty straightforward. Just open up your router’s admin interface or app and look for advanced settings, as that’s where DNS normally is.
    It’ll ask you for two (or more) IP addresses for DNS, make sure to try and fill both of those, as if requests fail with one IP address, the other can be used for fallback.
    A more secure DNS is only the first step
    If you’re trying to get a more secure network at home, a secure DNS is only a partial fix—but it’s definitely the first step.

    Once you get your network on a more secure DNS—or simply host your own DNS—then the next step is to start setting up VLANs, or virtual local area networks. What a VLAN will do for you is give you the ability to segregate devices on your network and control what access they get.

    For example, those Chinese smart plugs you have, you can put them on their own network and then make it so they can only access the external network, and not any other devices on your local network. Or, you can make it so they can only access your local network, but not the outside world.
    VLANs are really the best security upgrade for any home network. But, it all starts with getting your DNS right, so make that your next priority for securing your home network.

  10. Lois says:

    When an actress says she is cis gender but identifies as queer, what does that

    When an actress says she is cis gender but identifies as queer, what does that mean?

    When an actress identifies as cisgender but also as queer, she is conveying specific aspects of her gender identity and sexual orientation.

    ### Definitions:

    – **Cisgender**: This term refers to individuals whose gender identity aligns with the sex they were assigned at birth. For instance, a cisgender woman is someone who was assigned female at birth and identifies as a woman.

    – **Queer**: This is a broad term that encompasses various sexual orientations and gender identities that fall outside of the traditional norms. It often includes those who identify as LGBTQ+ (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, etc.), but it can also signify a rejection of rigid categories. Many people use “queer” to express fluidity in their sexuality or to indicate a non-heteronormative identity.

    ### Implications of Her Statement:

    1. **Gender Identity**: By identifying as cisgender, the actress is affirming her identity as a woman (or whatever her gender is) without it being influenced by gender dysphoria or transition.

    2. **Sexual Orientation**: Identifying as queer suggests that her sexual attraction may not be limited to one gender or that she experiences her sexuality in a non-traditional way. This could mean she is attracted to people of various genders or that she rejects conventional labels for her sexual orientation.

    ### Key Takeaways:

    – **Cisgender and Queer**: These terms indicate that she feels comfortable in her gender identity (cisgender), while maintaining a non-heteronormative perspective on her sexuality (queer).

    – **Fluidity and Inclusivity**: The use of “queer” often emphasizes inclusivity and fluidity in sexual orientation, suggesting that her attractions and relationships may not fit into a single category.

    This nuanced understanding allows for a richer conversation about gender and sexuality, recognizing the complexities of individual identities. If you have more specific aspects or questions about this topic, feel free to ask!

  11. Victor says:

    Like the way you think PrP. The Hos are everywhere, that’s why I don’t feel the need to be faithful to any one bitch.

    • Kalinda says:

      If you want to know why men are referred to as Hos, it’s because being a man is the same as being a Ho, because you never met a piece of pussy you would refuse if you thought you could have it without being caught.

  12. Kimberley says:

    CNN Founder Ted Turner Lived With Lewy Body Dementia. What Is It?
    Here’s what to know about the condition, what causes it, its symptoms and how it’s diagnosed.

    Ted Turner, the media pioneer who founded CNN, lived with a condition called Lewy body dementia for years. He died on Wednesday at age 87.
    Tributes have been pouring in online this week for the outspoken businessman whose legacy includes his 1980 creation of CNN, the first 24-hour, all-news TV network. A cause of death was not released, the Associated Press reported. In 2018, Turner revealed that he had Lewy body dementia, a progressive brain disorder that can make it difficult to do everyday activities, according to the Cleveland Clinic.
    Read on to learn more about the condition.

    What causes Lewy body dementia?

    Lewy body dementia (LBD) is the second most common type of dementia, according to the Mayo Clinic. The organization explains that there are two types of LBD: Dementia with Lewy bodies and Parkinson’s disease dementia.
    LBD can cause a decline in mental abilities that gradually worsens over time, the Mayo Clinic states, adding that people with the condition might experience visual hallucinations — meaning they might see things that aren’t there.
    The condition is caused by “abnormal deposits of alpha-synuclein proteins, called Lewy bodies, in the brain,” said Dr. Brintha Vasagar, a family medicine physician.
    The Cleveland Clinic states that these proteins “damage parts of your brain that control thinking and memory.”
    “Doctors and researchers don’t know why some people get LBD and others don’t,” the website adds.

    What are the symptoms of Lewy body dementia?

    The Cleveland Clinic explains that symptoms of LBD can vary depending on the person, and that they may come and go. The main issues include:
    trouble focusing/feeling confused
    memory loss
    hallucinations
    depression/anxiety/apathy
    feeling paranoid
    stiff muscles
    tremors
    troubles with balancing, speech or swallowing
    The website also notes that people with LBD may experience issues with their blood pressure, digestion, sleep and bladder or bowel control. An early indicator of the condition may be a loss of smell.
    Overall, the Cleveland Clinic states that symptoms tend to get worse over time.

    How is Lewy body dementia diagnosed?

    Vasagar explained that diagnosing LBD can be challenging.
    “Lewy body dementia can be difficult to diagnose because the presenting symptoms are varied, there is no definitive test, and it can be easily confused with other types of dementia, such as Alzheimer’s,” she told HuffPost. “Your family medicine physician can help you understand if changes in your memory or movement could be due to Lewy body dementia.”
    Vasagar said “thorough medical history, bloodwork, brain imaging and neuropsychological testing” are all important parts of the diagnosis.
    According to the National Institute on Aging, LBD affects men slightly more than women. The disease typically begins at age 50 or older, though younger people may have it.
    The website also lists other potential risk factors for LBD, like having a REM sleep behavior disorder or loss of smell.
    As for whether LBD can be treated, Vasagar said: “Unfortunately, there are no cures for Lewy body dementia.”
    “But medication, physical therapy, and behavioral interventions can help control symptoms,” she said. “Getting an early, accurate diagnosis is the key to maintaining quality of life.”
    As always, contact your healthcare provider with any questions or concerns about symptoms you’re experiencing.

  13. Freda says:

    Hilarious! Trump wanted Greenland to supply unlimited shrimp at red lobster. That is not a joke.

    https://www.instagram.com/reel/DZ52oSXuUiM/?igsh=ZnJpd29vdzRpdm9w

  14. Stuart says:

    When the Ear was showing me the four spots to aim for if I was attacked, he laughed. Now I know why. He showed me where to hit a person 1. Stomach, 2. Groin, 3. Top of the Foot, 4. Windpipe (but he cautioned me that going there if my life was not in danger would be manslaughter.

    Today, I’m being tried with manslaughter.

    • Naomi says:

      And you should be. Those are key points to immobilize your opponent. The latter (4) is a killing point.

    • Zach says:

      Why would you even trust this guy? I hear he is brokering a deal between Israel and Lebanon and he is taking money from both sides.

  15. Kate says:

    Who are the sick fucks that frequent this shit hole of a blog? It is a godless manifestation of what is wrong with our society. Oh, and that alien part is total bullshit. I hope God smites the lot of you. If He doesn’t, you will rot in Hell when you die.

    • Derrick says:

      Sounds like someone wants some dick in her ass.

    • Nader1 says:

      I do believe in Aliens, even I have not seen one, but now after people start thinking that I’m an Alien I have a doubt. 🙃

      • Jan says:

        You certainly have a lot of information and a point of view I have only seen in aliens or someone that’s sleeping with one. Just saying.

        • Saanvi says:

          I wish Nader1 would consider sleeping with me. I’m not an alien, but I think we have similar views. Most of the men I have had relationships with are basically assholes.

          Nader1 is refreshing and he sounds like a man one could trust. I’m been married and dating for 21 years. Frankly I’m tired of earth men, so if he is an alien, that is just fine with me.

      • David says:

        Yeah, Nader most of us doubt that you are a human. The way I see it is you are an alien who has been on earth a while and you enjoy fucking with us by pretending you are a human.

      • Adamma says:

        Don’t get discouraged. There are a lot of idiots on this blog. But you have to admit that not many men think like you. So it may be natural for some of us to think that you could be an alien or at least associated with one.

        Whatever, don’t stop giving your opinion because you bring a form of clarity to a subject that is rare. I may be young to the dating game (23), but you sound like a real catch.

      • Brittany says:

        That’s why I like this blog. You never know who is who. On the subject of whether you are an alien or not, I don’t see the concern. You contribute intellectually to the topics presented so it shouldn’t matter whether you are an alien or not.

    • Hua says:

      Er, Kate. You are here.

  16. PrP says:

    I’m coming back to SF next month …..

  17. Ahmed says:

    The Ear enters hotels around the world to stay as a DNA (Do Not Announce) guest. Only essential staff have access. But Mossad often provides him with security. So you tell me who he is loyal to?

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